“Fights and conflicts are inevitable in a relationship. It’s not about not fighting, it’s about knowing how to fight”
I work with couples to resolve or prevent a specific conflict; it is not therapy. I do not get into the symptoms, dynamics or history. I do not work to create positive re-enforcement. I work to isolate a specific issue or issues. In the process of isolating a conflicting situation, the couple will find out their differences without getting into a devastating battle. The couple will find out if this conflict is permanent or temporary and if the couple wishes to stay together or to renegotiate some points that will improve their lifestyle.
As a result, communication will improve and friendship will be regained. The couple will write down the agreement, which includes the conflict and how to manage the conflict.