Furniture Division

I wanted to address an issue that often arises during separation agreements but is frequently overlooked until the last minute: furniture division. It’s remarkable how frequently this aspect carries not just a monetary value but also an emotional one. Despite seeming straightforward, dividing furniture can present unexpected complexities.

Today, I’d like to discuss several options for dividing furniture, considering both practical needs and fair market value.

The first approach is to prioritize needs over market value. For instance, if Greg values entertainment and Susan values household appliances, a fair solution might involve each party keeping items aligned with their personal priorities. This approach, though seemingly simple, can become contentious if there’s a significant discrepancy in the perceived value of items.

The second option involves assessing the monetary value of each item and balancing the division accordingly. However, determining the exact value of furniture can be challenging. Should one compensate the other for the full difference in value, or only a portion? This requires careful negotiation and agreement.

If an impasse persists, the third option is to liquidate all furniture and divide the proceeds. While this may seem practical, it often leads to dissatisfaction as both parties may need to reinvest in essential items. This option is typically a last resort and reflects a breakdown in communication or heightened emotional involvement.

As a mediator, my role is crucial in guiding clients towards a mutually beneficial resolution. While the third option may seem tempting in emotionally charged situations, it’s essential to highlight its drawbacks and encourage constructive dialogue. Ultimately, fostering understanding and compromise is key to a successful outcome.

I look forward to discussing these options further and finding a solution that meets both your needs.

Daniel Mandelbaum

CERTIFIED FAMILY MEDIATOR – JUSTICE INSTITUTE OF BRITISH COLUMBIA

I discovered that I was born to mediate and collaborate, as I was – and still am – the individual that my friends and family call on to resolve any conflicts that may arise.